Thursday, November 29, 2012

Week 20 Photos

Here he is at "Auntie" Erin's house playing with Nater's old toy.  

Here he is just being his silly cute self. 

Sleepy time on Mommy

He cleans up his bumbo tray when he is done eating now.  So cute!

I'm a big fan of these Batman pajamas!



Playing with a new favorite toy.  We call it Crinkle Star :)

Here is Maddex with his new baby cousin, Alexander. 

Hurry up and feed me Mom!

Pears are his favorite!

I'm waiting for more!

Okay I'll smile if you give me more!

And I'll smile some more...


Yeah, I gave him a faux hawk...

I think he looked super adorable!

Falling asleep...

Smiling in his sleep



Watching ultimate fighting on the computer in the Daddy Bumbo

My Elvis baby :)

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Week 19 Photos

Here is a little look at Maddex's shelf in the fridge.  Breast milk and organic veggies. 

Pesky checking him out.  Wait till you see some pics of Maddex checking out Pesky!


This was taking the last time I was updating my blog.  He was actually looking at a picture of himself.  

That tongue is never in his mouth anymore!



Dinner!

Using his feet to grab the spiders. 


So I found this outfit hanging with his 12 month clothes and had to put in on him even though Halloween had already passed!

Maddex making whale noises!

He was laughing waaaay harder before I took the video, but he still looks super cute.  Just ignore my annoying voice!

Chomping on Daddy's nose!

Playing with his piggy toes. 

Loving fruit in the feeder!


His feet were so different with shoes on.  He just couldn't keep his hands off them!




Playing at Mem and Papou's


His first taste of pears (to help with his major constipation! <--He will love me for that one day!)

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

20-21 Weeks















A lot has happened since the last time I sat down to write about Little Boy.  We had a little play date with his cousin who is two months older than him.  It was fun to see the boys look at each other and “play” with each other.  On that day we also made a surprise pit stop to Mem’s work so she could show him off to the ladies in her office.  I’m pretty sure she was in heaven.  Maddex also got to meet his new baby cousin Alex.  Its funny, but he had no interest in the newborn.  It’s like he would rather see and swat at babies and kids that are actually moving.  Those two will have plenty of time to hit each other!  I also had my first ladies night out with Lauren and Kiel stayed home with Maddex all alone!  It was kind of a big deal since it was the longest he had ever been alone with him AND he had to put him to bed on his own. 

A big thing happened on the day after the Maddex and Daddy night.  He cut his first tooth!  He was exactly four months and fifteen days old and I totally knew it was coming.  Well, I guess I had mentioned it was coming since he was about 8 weeks old and he really started drooling up a storm. But really, about 2-3 days before the tooth popped through I said to Kiel, “His gums feel different.  Like thin or something.”  The next day he felt them and said he noticed a difference too.  And wouldn’t you know on November 16, 2012 he got his first tooth-the bottom front tooth on his left.  Oh My Goodness he was so fussy that day.  I tried everything to sooth him and the top two things were teething tabs dissolved right on his gums and frozen binkies-ideas courtesy of my facebook friends!  The next day the tooth right beside that popped through as well.    We had to deal with two days of MAJOR fussiness, but after that he has been awesome (except for not really sleeping more than 2 hours at a time at night).  I have been saying “We went from major colic to teeth and now we finally have a happy baby!” 

It is nice to finally experience the really good stuff.  The belly laughs, the curious faces, the excited baby, the lovey dovey cuddly baby.  Needless to say I have really been enjoying the past few weeks. 

We also had Maddex’s first Thanksgiving.  He was awesome that whole day. He tolerated being passed from person to person so well.  He only cried a few times and those times were very short.  I love being able to bring him places and not having to stress about whether or not he will have a total meltdown. 

We have been doing lots of going out to restaurants and shopping and he has been a dream!  One day we shopped and walked around town for almost 3 hours- all without a peep!  He just loves being outside or in new places.  He is so curious he just looks around and gives the occasional smile to a stranger.  He is just too stinking awesome!  I can’t tell you how many times I have told him he is  such a good baby these last few weeks! 

Today we went to visit his daycare for the final time before he is on his own.  All I can say is: I totally needed today’s experience.  He was awesome.  He was curious to see the kids.  He played independently.  He watched the other kids playing.  He was great when Kim picked him up.  Kim’s mother also said “Wow!  What a good natured little boy!”  Ha!  I had never heard that one before!  I guess that’s because most people have heard him scream for most of our visits to places in the past.  It feels so good to know he will be fine  without me.  I cannot wait to see all that he learns from Kim and the kids and the little boy he is going to become by going to such a great daycare.  We are so very lucky to have found such a great place to bring our child in our very own neighborhood!  

- The Weekly List -

20-21 Weeks Old
Total weight gain/loss:
Mom: I’m holding strong at just 20 pounds under my pre pregnancy weight.  I am completely happy staying here!

Maddex: He is about 18 pounds and eating like a little piggy!  The past two days he has been preferring solid food and nursing to the bottle.  I wonder what will happen when he starts daycare. 

Sleep: Sleep is still not where I would like it to be.  For two nights after his teeth he slept for 7.5 then 6.5 hours then we were back to waking every 2-3 hours and some nights even more often than that.  Let’s just say he is sooooo not like me when it comes to sleeping!

Best moment this week: Just being with my happy baby.  I love the way he looks at me!  Loving every last second with him!

Miss Anything? I am dealing fine with no sleep.  I can say that now, at 5:30 when he decides to wake up for good after being up ever hour from 11-5, I may have other words in mind…


Looking forward to: Our first Mommy and Me swim class this Saturday.  It should be interesting getting ready in the locker room with him!  Getting our family Christmas tree on Sunday.  Picking out and cutting down the tree has been a very important family tradition and I am so happy to continue it now with Maddex.  Bringing Maddex to meet Santa for the first time!

Likes:
Mom: 
-Everything about this child. 
-Spending all day everyday with him.  It doesn't get old!
-Going places with the boy and he totally just chills and watches everything
-Smiles from my boy
-His laugh
-When he seeks me out, finds me, and kicks and wiggles cuz he is so happy to see me!
(All the same!) (I still can't change these!)
-He is now showing preference to the breast instead of the bottle.  I love it, but I can't figure this kid out!
-That he knows when it is time to sleep and he cuddles right in and passes right out.  
-That he doesn’t scream in the car anymore.  He just chills, hums/sings, or sleeps.  It’s great after all we have been through in the car!
-That I have had so much quality time with him!


Maddex: 
-Spending time outside
-People watching
-Looking at himself in the mirror
-Watching Mommy's hair shake
-Watching Mommy when she sticks out her tongue (he is copying me again now too)
-Blowing raspberries
-Diaper changes
-A & D ointment
-Kicking in the bath tub
-Chewing on my fingers
-Sleeping on Mommy's chest
-When Mommy does my belly exercises.
-Being Super Baby!   
-Putting everything in my mouth
-Playing with toys
-My monkey toy
-Hanging out and eating dinner with Mommy and Daddy
-My new crinkly star blanket from Joe and Linda
-Shopping with Mommy
-Pears!!
-Yaz and Pesky
- Other little kids

Dislikes:
Mom: 
-Can’t think of any.  Maybe just that he doesn’t sleep through the night yet.

Maddex:  
-Getting dressed
-Sleeping the whole night in my Co-sleeper.  Mommy is much squishier!
-Sleeping alone 
-Sun in my face
-Wind
-That I can’t chase the kitties yet!




Firsts
Mom
-Major holiday with my baby (Thanksgiving)
-Became an aunty for the first time!



Maddex:
-Thanksgiving
-Playdate with his cousin
-Tooth (teeth)
-Visit to a package store (Mom needed to buy a present for a friend!)

Monday, November 12, 2012

18 Weeks- A Little Delayed and I'll throw in 19 Weeks too!









He moves around so much now!



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10/9/12
As I type this he is singing in his swing.  I LOVE his voice!  The weeks are flying by right now.  I can't believe we are at 18 weeks!  He is growing like a weed and every day he seems older and more interested in the world around him.  He is totally into the cats right now.  He loves petting them and he loves how Pesky swings his tail in his face.  Yesterday we were playing on the floor with Pesky when he walked away.  I propped Maddex up on his feet and he started walking over to him.  It was very cool and Maddex was really excited to see that he made his way over to the kitty!

This morning I confessed to Kiel that I should have gone back to work when Maddex was four months old at the oldest.  In the past few weeks I have really noticed a HUGE attachment to Mama.  The attachment has been noticeable almost since day one.  I remember asking the doctor at his 2 month check up why he seemed so clingy to me.  I guess that is a (good and sometimes not so good) side effect of a breast fed baby.   Anyway, going back to work is going to be super hard for me.  I am going back on December 10th and even when I go back I will still have 41 sick days left.  Those 41 days are sooooo tempting to take, but I must save them for when he gets sick, when I need a mental health/sleep day, and if/when we plan to go for baby number 2.  It was my hope that at five months Maddex really wouldn't notice that he wasn't spending all day everyday with me.   But now I am beginning to think he will notice.  I really hope he isn't stressed at day care.  He still needs to be rocked to sleep in most instances, it takes him a while to take down a bottle, and he gets my nearly constant attention.  He does play for long periods of time and right now he is still singing in his swing!   I hope his sleep schedule changes a bit so include two long naps at daycare.  He will only be there for about 6 hours a day and if he can get him self to nap 2 times for 1-2 hours he could only have 2 hours of awake time there.  That would make me very happy and a little less worried!

Yesterday I finally did the teething trick Kate had told me to try a while ago-frozen banana slices in the Sassy Feeder.  He loved them!  First I put one slice in and he sucked away. When it was all gone he cried for more so I grabbed another slice....And he got so mad!!  Why?  Because it was frozen and he wanted to eat it NOW!!  He is sooo impatient.  Since he was loving bananas in the feeder I gave him some more later in the day.  But the bananas and the sweet potato that I was still on day 3 of introducing caused some constipation.  He didn't really fuss, but his poop was not looking like it should have been.

And now I am picking up where I left off on Friday (today is Monday!  Crazy weekend!)

I got some pears to help with his constipation and they surely did help!  And he loves pears more than any other food!  I wasn't planning on introducing any more food, but when we read up on constipation cures we had to try one of them and pears seemed like a good option.  He first had these with my mom on Saturday when I was out for my spa day.  I kept a few of the steamed pears out so my mom could put them in her Cleva Feeder.  And he loved it!

As of 19 Weeks these are the foods he has tried:
-Apples
-Bananas
-Summer Squash
-Zucchini
-Sweet Potatoes
-Pears

I think once we finish the 4 days on pears we will continue with pears for breakfast most days and a veggie for dinner.  I may also throw a slice of bananas into the Sassy Feeder during the day as well since he loves sucking on those!  His next foods will probably be butternut squash and possibly blue berries, but I think I'll wait until December for that.




- The Weekly List -

18-19 Weeks Old
Total weight gain/loss:
Mom: Ummm I got on the scale this morning after pumping 12 ounces (yes that is a lot!) and I was 21 pounds under my pre-pregnancy weight!  Holy crap!   I haven't been this 'light' since before I got married!  I know I have lost a lot of muscle mass and I plan to start running again in the spring with Maddex.  I think by then he will be ready to jog in the stroller.  Also, the fact that my stomach is still flabby means that the bouncing that happens when I jog still hurts where my incision was.  I also have pain in my hips since I got a little out of alignment when I was trying to push him out.  Hopefully several months of no physical activity and continued breast feeding will help flatten out my belly and get my legs back into the right place so running is more comfortable.  And I will also have to invest in new, bigger, and stronger sports bras!  

Maddex: At the gastroenterologist he was 17 pounds.  Kiel weighed him the other day on our scale and he was 17.5 pounds.  He is packing on the pounds right now.   He is about to outgrow size 2 diapers and I am not ready for that. For one, I still have a huge box and a half of Swaddlers, and two, Size 3 diapers are more expensive!  I packed away all of his 3 and 3-6 months clothes (except his pants, he has short legs).  It is so sad to put away all of his cute things!  I can't believe how quickly he is growing!  He is almost out of size 6 months shirts and onesies!   

Sleep: He still hasn't slept through the night by my standards (8 hours) and certainly not by Kiel's (10-11 hours).  He still only sleeps for about 3-4 hours during his first stretch with 5 hours here and there.  Then after his first wake up he is usually up every 2 hours after that.  

Best moment this week: Taking him trick or treating, watching him play on his own, getting him to laugh at me (he knows what silly things are), when he makes me laugh (he already wants to make me laugh so when he makes a silly noise or face and I laugh he keeps doing it! we have a little clown on our hands!).  Hearing both doctors call him perfect, and both saying, "Wow, what a looking healthy boy!" before sitting down at their computers to check his info.  

Miss Anything?
Warm weather, but today is nice out and we will get in a few walks before it gets dark.   



Looking forward to: Maddex meeting his baby cousin Alex who was born on November 10th!  

Likes:
Mom: 
-Everything about this child. 
-Spending all day everyday with him.  It doesn't get old!
-Going places with the boy and he totally just chills and watches everything
-Smiles from my boy
-His laugh
-When he seeks me out, finds me, and kicks and wiggles cuz he is so happy to see me!
(All the same!) (I still can't change these!)
-He is now showing preference to the breast instead of the bottle.  I love it, but I can't figure this kid out!
-That he knows when it is time to sleep and he cuddles right in and passes right out.  
-His belly laugh
-His silly faces
-That we have little inside jokes 
-That he sings to his favorite song (Some Nights by Fun.)


Maddex: 
-Spending time outside
-People watching
-Looking at myself in the mirror
-Blowing raspberries
-Diaper changes
-A & D ointment
-Kicking in the bath tub
-Chewing on my fingers
-Sleeping on Mommy's chest
-When Mommy does my belly exercises.
-Being Super Baby!   
-Putting everything in my mouth
-Playing with toys
-My monkey toy
-Hanging out and eating dinner with Mommy and Daddy
-My new crinkly star blanket from Joe and Linda
-Shopping with Mommy
-Grabbing my feet (if only my belly were smaller so I could put them in my mouth)
-When Mommy or Daddy says "Ah Goo"  That is my favorite sound. 



Dislikes:
Mom: 
-When he stiffens during outfit changes and when getting into his car seat.  He hates both of those things!
-That he cries for attention now. 
-When he arches his back so he can try and scootch out of chairs and swings (its time for seat belts!)

Maddex:  
-Getting dressed
-Sleeping the whole night in my Co-sleeper.  Mommy is much squishier!
-Sleeping alone 
-Sun in my face
-Wind
-My car seat